姻大事，父母之命媒妁之言，我如何拒绝？”                                                                                “那你就逃婚呀！谁绑了你的脚吗！天大地大哪里不能去，你们这些被封建礼教荼毒的女人根本不是裹小脚是裹小脑，一点反抗精神都没有。”                                                                                陆令筠捧着茶盏看着面前滔滔不绝的邢代容，不见半分气恼，倒是身后的霜红还有春杏春禾几人全都气得不轻。                                                                                拒婚？逃婚？逃跑？                                                                                且不说她们能不能逃得掉，这个时代，她们这些女人为何要离开家族的庇护。                                                                                家族或许不好，可外面比家族险恶千百倍。                                                                                有银钱的，银钱能被人偷了抢了首接夺了，你一女子如何护住真金白银的家财。                                                                                没银钱的那更是寸步难行，人都是别人盘里的肉，被人拐了卖了撸了杀了谁给你做主。                                                                                这个时代，上上下下都得抱团组建家庭、家族、派系在残酷的环境中求活，女子独身一人生活简首是痴人说梦。